30 day challenge, day 3: A book you love

Ok, my favorite book changes, all the time! If you would have asked me this question last month, it probably would have been something else.  But at the moment, the best book that I have read recently is "A love Rekindled" by Myne Whitman.  You should check it out, it is actually really good!

30 day challenge, Day 2: Something you feel strongly about

I feel strongly about "setting goals".  I really believe the quote that says "if you fail to prepare, prepare to fail!"
I believe that every person should have goals for themselves, whether personal or professional.  If asked where do you hope to be in 5 years, you SHOULD have an answer!!!!

I am so anal about setting goals that I always have a set of goals at the beginning of every year that I strive to meet!

Well, I answered the question.  So..................c'est fini!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  :)

30 day challenge, day 1: 5 ways to win your heart

My answers to this topic might seem very generic but oh well!  These are just some of the ways to win my heart, they are NOT my top 5; just the 5 that came to mind at this time!

1.)  I love a guy that is intelligent; I reaaaaaaally cannot stand guys that are empty barrels!  I also love guys that are ambitious; guys that are complacent really grind my gears.  I am always seeking professional and personal development and I would expect the same of my man, seriously!

2.)  I love a man that is affectionate!  There is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings; expressing your feelings does NOT make you any less of a man! In fact, in my book, that makes you more of a man than anything.

3. There is nothing sexier, more endearing that a man that knows how to use his words! Articulate men, are to die for! Shoot, I am currently in love (although the dude doesn't know it!) with a man around me, and what sparked my interest is how articulate he is.  Oh mehn, he is such an eloquent speaker!
4.) Trust! I need to trust my man, not just trust o, like TRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUST my man!  In the words of Sekou tha Misfit, he needs to "have my back as if every vertebrae in my spine is tattooed with his name on it! I need to be able to trust him "like I trust the air to be there when I wake up!" Really, he needs to be incredibly trustworthy!

5.) I'd be lying if I said physical attributes were not involved.  Really, I love me a nice good looking man.  Thanks to my stature, I am usually only attracted to tall men (above 6ft).  This is because I am 6ft myself and I still rock my 3.5 to 4inch heels regularly.  There are not that many men that like a chick that is almost as tall as them!  AND I REFUSE to take my heels off just to stroke any man's ego.........that's a huge NO-NO for me.


See you tomorrow for day 2!!! :)

30 day Challenge

Hi guys! I found out about this challenge through Sting's blog post about it .  I am not sure that I have ever actually participated in a blog challenge of this sort so I'm going to start today :)

Don't Bullsh*t me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You wanna know what really grinds my gears?  Actually, I don't care whether you care to know or not.  I'm telling you anyway! :p

I can't stand when people call my phone and beat around the bush for a while before getting to the real reason why they called.  This usually is someone who never calls you just to say hi or see how you're doing.  So immediately you see the incoming call from the person, your guard's up because you know he/she needs something from you.

I especially hate when they go on into silly banter asking you a bunch of irrelevant questions and ish.  After a while, my mind can't take it anymore so I just break out with "so, what's up? what's going on?", although in my really thinking "YO HOMES, WHAT DO YOU WANT?????????".   Not until, you cut them off and ask what's up do they actually spill their guts!

Please, don't call my phone trying to bullshi*t me with a bunch of pleasantries only when you need something! ARRGGHHH! *insert head sparks here* :o